Can you have love without pion? Can you live like that forever?

Can you be married to someone which whom you have no pion with or for? I believe that I may be miserable forever if I marry someone who, mechanically, can be a great partner for marriage (ie- instilling morals and lessons into children, providing the other half of a home that I don't) but I have no connection to, intimately or pionately. We can have a good partnership for tasks BUT I don't feel how beautiful he is when I look in his eyes, I don't make the connection people do when they realize how brilliant their love is when they look into the face of the one they love- when we kiss I don't yearn for another, I don't feel anything. Have you experienced this? How? What do you make of this? Is it possible to live this way? Is there an alleviation? You can't just go to the store and buy this and I can't force myself to feel pion when it is only something that comes naturally for me depending on the person...