Should i make a deal with my boyfriend about and strip clubs?

we've been dating for 7months. he asked me to move in with him and i agreed to move in with him next month. last night while i was exercising, taking a shower, and changing into my pjs, he was watching . i confronted him, and asked him, what are you doing? i grabbed the computer and he was on myspace but i hit the backspace on n there was this naked girl. i was so mad because he was watching the night before too and i had told him i didnt like it. he tells me to stop being childish and grow up. that its normal to watch and that he always has had. he tells me that im trying to prohibit everything from him (smoking, drinking n ). he said he'd quit smoking but he wont quit drinking. everytime he's with his cousins or friends he drinks like 8 coronas throughout the day. i just dont think its healthy maybe three? but back to the thing. he tells me to stop being insecure. i just dont know what to do. my last boyfriend wouldnt agree of porn. this is too hard for me to accept. i punched him last night coz i was so hurt. 20minutes later he asked if we werent gonna do anythin n i said no lol but i gave in later. he has also told me that he'd go to stripclubs even if i dont want him too. he's very straightforward and tells me his true self. he and i grew up differently. my mom would be strict on me. his mom never said no to him. i didnt have til college. he started having at 14. he doesnt go to college but i do. would i get far with him? i feel like after college and getting a job elsewhere, our relationship wont work out because i will find somebody else. he cooks dinner for me and washes the dishes. he has a better memory than me which to me is like wow lol and is really funny. i just feel like hes going to end up cheating on me someday just by the fact that he watches porn and hed go to a strip club with his friends. he thinks its okay because his older sister is married with two kids and lets her husband go to strip clubs. i told him im not his sister. maybe i should make a deal with him...maybe we can watch porn together? but i still wouldnt want him to b touching other girls and paying for it!? so i could approve of porn but not strip clubs! hopefully he agrees, if not then what?